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Organization Idea to Organize a Disorganized Family Member at Home
Does
your spouse keep his magazines and newspapers spread across the floors of your
home? Is she constantly asking you if you've seen her keys or eyeglasses? Are you
tripping over your child's toys? Is his or her disorganization driving you mad?
You can stop the chaotic madness in your home. Heed this simple home
organization advice to get your home or family member in order.
ASK WHY
Why do you want this family member to be more organized? Is this person's
disorganization affecting you in a way that you can literally describe? For
instance, perhaps you're tripping over your spouse's shoes. That's a safety
hazard. Or maybe you have to drive your children to school a few days too many
because they miss the school bus---because they can't find their report,
clothes, lunch, etc. in a timely manner. That affects your schedule (and your
gas tank!). Or maybe your husband (or wife) buys duplicate items because they
forgot where they put (or that they already owned) the last one. That affects
your family budget.
Those are all valid and good reasons to help a family member to be more
organized around your home. And there are plenty more examples that you can add
to that list. But if your reason to organize your spouse, kids, parents or even
roommate is because YOU think it will help them function better in life or YOU
think they'll appreciate having a more organized room (because you always do),
you're just complicating your life. And home organization is about simplifying
your life, not complicating it. Make sure you're helping someone to get
organized at home because it helps them in some way THAT THEY WANT or because it
helps you both with a shared goal that you express to them (e.g. You don't break
your neck tripping over your husband's shoes in the future or you can find the
shared car keys when you're ready to go to your appointment.)
NOW WHAT
In order to organize a function or task of a disorganized family member, you
have to think like them. So that means you have to keep an open mind. For
instance, you know your spouse or kids come in every day and automatically flip
their shoes off the first moment they get. They're not doing this to annoy you.
It's just them. Maybe their feet are hot! So make organization convenient for
them. Put a shoe bench near the foyer. They can still immediately take their
shoes off but they can put them right away there in the shoe bench. A shoe bench
is cool because it's a piece of furniture that's part of your home decor. Yet
you can't see the dirty shoes (You might want to throw a stick-on odor eater in
the shoe compartment too.).
The same goes for items like keys, notebooks, backpacks, sunglasses, etc. Set up
baskets, bins, tins, containers, etc. in convenient places where family members
have a habit of laying things. It's convenient for them. Your home looks neater
(and you can blend these organizational helpers into the decor). Everyone knows
where these items are located when they need them because these items now have
an official home (and a convenient home).
Or let's say a family member has a hobby or collection of different items they
use regularly. You often find these items on the floor. You know this person
well so you know they'll never replace these items neatly in closed bins and put
them back on that one assigned closet shelf (like you would). That'll never work
for him or her. Instead, think like that person. What that person needs is open
bins or baskets (no lids) on an open vertical shelving system. That way they can
see exactly what is where at a glance without dumping everything onto the floor.
And they can easily (even haphazardly) throw items back into the bins. And
that's because there are no lids on them---the contents are viewable at a
glance--and this is an organizational system for a person who wants to use their
stuff not an organized person who wants their stuff to all look pretty. See the
difference.
Think like the end user to create home organizational systems for your
disorganized family members. You devise or buy organizational bins, baskets and
shelving systems that are pretty and neat for your home while also buying ones
that are functional for the intended user of the organizational item.
THE REST OF YOUR HOME
If you have less organized family members who can't or aren't going to follow
your detailed organization system, keep making it easy on them throughout your
entire home. Give them something they can handle like a basket or container
system. They don't have to organize and sort their toys, dirty laundry or other
items. They just have to keep each set of different items in its designated
container when not in use. It's up to them to dig through the stack in each
container if they need something.
No alphabetizing. No categorizing the items in each container. No color coding.
Just put each group of items in a different basket, bin or container. A
contained stack is much neater and still more organized than having things
spread around the floor or counter. If it bothers you, put a lid on it,
literally. And if you still find the occasional item on the floor when you're
vacuuming, just toss it in the container (don't straighten it, fold it or try to
put it just so in the container---just toss it in and move on).
Try these tips with Mr. or Ms. Messy in your home and watch your home
organization plan take shape quicker than you ever thought possible. And
remember, you cannot transform a disorganized person into an organized person.
But you can work their habits and personality into your home organization scheme
with a little creative thinking and compromise (by both parties). Just borrow a home organization
idea from this article and give it a try at your house.
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